Social Life & Scoliosis—Friendships, Dating & Disclosure
For many young people and adults, the hardest part of scoliosis is not the medical side—it’s telling others. Questions about when and how to disclose can feel overwhelming.
Talking to Friends
Dorsi encourages honest but simple explanations such as:
- “My spine curves a bit, so I’m wearing a brace to help straighten it.”
- “I’ve had back surgery, so I’m still getting my strength back.”
We help patients rehearse these conversations and handle questions confidently.
Dating and Intimacy
Body image worries can make dating stressful. Our support includes:
- Discussing when and how to share information with a partner.
- Addressing fears about appearance, scars, or braces.
- Encouraging healthy boundaries and mutual respect.
Online and Social Media
Some patients choose to share their scoliosis story online; others prefer privacy. Dorsi helps individuals find a level of openness that feels safe and empowering.
Next Steps
If scoliosis is complicating friendships or dating, Dorsi Spinal Institute can provide guidance, counselling, and peer support to make social life feel manageable again.
Related reading: see our blogs on mental health, confidence, and building a scoliosis support network.
Written by
Dr Matthew ABJ Potts BSc MSc DC ISPRM
Clinical Director
Doctor of Chiropractic
Specialist Scoliosis Consultant
Fellow of the British Scoliosis Society
Member of the Scoliosis Association (UK)
Chair of the Clinical Advisory Board at Meloq AB
Member of the International Society of Physical and Rehabilitation Medicine
Editorial board member of international journals CICRJ & Rehabilitation Science
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